You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. This morning, I received a long email from a reader named Evan who is struggling with letting go of a failed relationship. In his email he explains, in rather vivid detail, the signs and symptoms of a toxic relationship that has been heading south for many years.
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Letting go is not giving up. Letting go is surrendering any obsessive attachment to particular people, outcomes and situations. Surrender means showing up every day in your life with the intention to be your best self, and to do Looking to just let some stress go best you know how, without expecting life to go a certain way.
Have goals, have dreams, aspire and take purposeful action and build great relationships, but detach from what life must look like. Surrender brings inner peace and joy, and lest we forget that our outer lives are a reflection of our inner state of being. What do you need to let go of?
What thoughts, habits and attachments are creating unnecessary stress in your life? Leave a comment below and let us know what lt intend to do about it.
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Photo by: Salvatore Iovene. I totally relate to what Evan is going through. Facing reality is very challenging. It is articles like these that really help me. It is hard work to let go, sometimes, but I believe I am heading in the right direction.
I used to think positive affirmations were kind of corny, now I do not. I have written a few and illustrated them and hung them in my bathroom where I will see them everyday. I also am trying to be Looking to just let some stress go to myself. I am kind to everyone else, but not always kind to Looking to just let some stress go and part of being Looking to just let some stress go to me, is facing the reality that my toxic relationship was not good for me.
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As I have in the past, I want to share a relevant quote from your book, which continues to push me in the right direction:. We let go and walk away not because we want the universe to realize our worth, but because we finally realize our own worth.
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So I thank you for your articles, they keep me strong. This was good read! I am trying to let go what I imagined my life to be.
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Confrontation is hard. Getting criticized is hard. Keep your head down and try not to be noticed. This is what I learned. It continues to be a downfall. I have found it impossible so far to let go of a relationship that ended in January, one that had incredible promise but never developed into anything substantial.
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Thank you Marc and Angel. Letting go can be so difficult. The thought of letting go can definitely make you feel like you are giving up.